Do women get upset that their husbands talk of this too much ?

[coinflipper_21]

If you think that your wife would be upset with fantasies in this vein try mine. She went back to school in mid life to become a therapist. Now, any sexual fantasy that I bring up is "DIAGNOSTIC"!

[A-1]

Originally Posted by datyiasp

A-1;

How's things?

Obsess (the word I used) and fantasize (your inference) have two entirely different meanings. I suggest you reread my post. Being less pedantic over semantics may possibly assist your understanding of my statement.

A man must prove himself worthy of the female. Obsessive castration talk from a hubby deeming himself unworthy of his own testicles? That just can't and won't play for the ladies.

Men don't suddenly develop a castration fantasy one day and decide to "cut" the lady in on the great news. They nurture their fantasy for many years until it bubbles over into incessant noise and constant insecurities for the wife.

"Man up" to your fiancee or wife and tell her now. Give her the heads up on the shit headed her way because of your "fantasy". See how fast she'll "get it" and split.

Thank you.

PS. This post is not meant for any man suffering illness, injury or any other involuntary sexual impairment. I apologize to anyone so offended. God bless you!

And therefore as a stranger give it welcome.
There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy. - Hamlet Act I Scene 5

THINGS....are working just fine and feeling just GREAT, thank you for asking!

You, my friend, seem to be making assumptions about people and things that are foreign to your everyday life. Otherewise, you know that what you say is not only illiogical, but false. How do YOU know 'shit' (your phrase, not mine) about any of us here?

Being less condescending to the members of the E.A. would serve YOU well. Perhaps it would help if you realized that not only can you NOT save the world, but much of the world that you see here does not wish to be saved.

How can YOU claim to know the mind of "the ladies" unless you make mass generalizations about every female on the planet?

How do YOU know that some men don't make up fantasies and then move on from that point without making mass generalizations about every man on the planet?

Wise up to your illogical assumptions based upon your own insecurities and quit pretending to 'see' into every relationship between two humans (biologically male and female) that could possibly exist between the billions of people and hundreds of millions of cultures on the planet and begin to realize just how small your corner on the world might be.

Answer me just one rheutorical question. Do YOU consider every member who posts here or who visits this website as possessing a castration obsession?

If so, perhaps YOU should be the one "COMING OUT" and then come back and tell us if how the experiment went.

I bet that it goes differently for YOU than it did for me...

May God help you!

[datyiasp]

Originally Posted by A-1

THINGS....are working just fine and feeling just GREAT, thank you for asking!

You, my friend, seem to be making assumptions about people and things that are foreign to your everyday life. Otherewise, you know that what you say is not only illiogical, but false. How do YOU know 'shit' (your phrase, not mine) about any of us here?

Being less condescending to the members of the E.A. would serve YOU well. Perhaps it would help if you realized that not only can you NOT save the world, but much of the world that you see here does not wish to be saved.

How can YOU claim to know the mind of "the ladies" unless you make mass generalizations about every female on the planet?

How do YOU know that some men don't make up fantasies and then move on from that point without making mass generalizations about every man on the planet?

Wise up to your illogical assumptions based upon your own insecurities and quit pretending to 'see' into every relationship between two humans (biologically male and female) that could possibly exist between the billions of people and hundreds of millions of cultures on the planet and begin to realize just how small your corner on the world might be.

Answer me just one rheutorical question. Do YOU consider every member who posts here or who visits this website as possessing a castration obsession?

If so, perhaps YOU should be the one "COMING OUT" and then come back and tell us if how the experiment went.

I bet that it goes differently for YOU than it did for me...

May God help you!

A-1 (AKA Mr. Spock)

Proverbs 26:4 and 26:5 KJV Look it up.

I'm ebullient things are swell with you and yours!

I apologize for leaving loose ends.

Jesus saves. He's good at it.

I merely condescend because I'm too stupid to do anything else. I need to learn "shit"! Could Wikipedia reveal such knowledge to lowly me? Seems "highly illogical", yes?

Rhetorically answering, I'd guess every poster on EA has some kind of sexual issue regarding castration.

If I had 0.5 brain, I'd guess a lady upset over hubby's castration "fantasy" prating MIGHT infer such conversation "obsessive". I hate to go, but I've been made to understand that I don't know "shit". So... I'm off to see the wizard to get myself a brain!

Keep smiling!

Thank you.

[chilliwilli]

Originally Posted by coinflipper_21

If you think that your wife would be upset with fantasies in this vein try mine. She went back to school in mid life to become a therapist. Now, any sexual fantasy that I bring up is "DIAGNOSTIC"!

CF-
Switch therapists!
chilli-

[A-1]

Originally Posted by datyiasp

A-1 (AKA Mr. Spock)

Proverbs 26:4 and 26:5 KJV Look it up.

I'm ebullient things are swell with you and yours!

I apologize for leaving loose ends.

Jesus saves. He's good at it.

I merely condescend because I'm too stupid to do anything else. I need to learn "shit"! Could Wikipedia reveal such knowledge to lowly me? Seems "highly illogical", yes?

Rhetorically answering, I'd guess every poster on EA has some kind of sexual issue regarding castration.

If I had 0.5 brain, I'd guess a lady upset over hubby's castration "fantasy" prating MIGHT infer such conversation "obsessive". I hate to go, but I've been made to understand that I don't know "shit". So... I'm off to see the wizard to get myself a brain!

Keep smiling!

Thank you.

Ok, Ok, I'm sorry. I should have been kinder to A STRANGER IN A STRANGE LAND.

You are certainly NOT afflicted with a brain abnormality.

Stay away from Wikipedia on this subject, for the knowledge there can be opinionated. Try THIS SITE and do not worry about 'thinking' about something.

This is an opportunity to experience some RELIGIOUS TOLERANCE and realize that many, many religious leaders, (too many, in fact) use scripture and GOD to control others.

In some cases they DO NOT follow their own teachings, but they hold others to their standards.

Oh, and by the way, castration IS a 'sexual issue', of course, but it is a HEALTH ISSUE for many and so many things to so many people.

However, a hysterectomy and oovarectomy seem to offer no problem in 'polite' conversation. Seldom do religious leaders offer up a 'scripture based' opinion on that subject.

So, how can castration be different?

Ahh, our double standards. Reinforced by strict biblical interpretations. Not to mention Islam, Judiasm et cetera and so forth...

No, you are NOT dumb, silly or in need of a brain. Perhaps you just need some new friends.

In which case, I say WELCOME to the ZOO!

Make yourself at home, stay a while, RELAX... take you shoes off, kick back and read some 'another day in the life of a wolf" Y'all come back now, Y'hear?

[nonamesplease]

Back to the original question...

Since my chemical castration was a mutual decision, I can speak about the effects to my wife without her becoming upset. Actually, she finds it a bit humorous that I am experiencing "going through the change" like she did to the point of mentioning it to others.

She now takes it for granted that sex is her exclusive prerogative, which is OK with me, given that my desire to initiate lovemaking is now almost nil and only fleeting.

[coinflipper_21]

Originally Posted by chilliwilli

CF-
Switch therapists!
chilli-

If only I could!

[chilliwilli]

Originally Posted by coinflipper_21

If only I could!

CF talk to me baby...
A X has a degree in therapy too. My advice is to take her advise with a grain of salt. Women have a way of turning everything to their advantage. Some guys are suckers and fall victims everytime.

chilli-

[coinflipper_21]

Originally Posted by chilliwilli

CF talk to me baby...
A X has a degree in therapy too. My advice is to take her advise with a grain of salt. Women have a way of turning everything to their advantage. Some guys are suckers and fall victims everytime.

chilli-

Our society concedes to women the moral high ground at the start of almost any discussion between a man and a woman. Any woman that does not take advantage of this is either very much in love with the man or does not have two brain cells to rub together. (Many women maintain that both are the same thing.) This is a big subject, off topic for this thread, and if you want to go on with it, despite being in serious risk of being branded as a couple misogynists, we had better start another one.

[Riven]

Some women probably do get upset that their husbands talk of this too much, which is sad. But I like to think that most women are very supportive of their husbands and make an effort to participate in conversations. My wife is as supportive of me as I am of her. We have talked about castration many many times, but we do talk a lot anyway. In fact we think we probably talk more than most couples, so although we've discussed castration many many times, it's only one of a great many subjects that we talk about at length. I think our willingness to communicate with each other shows how healthy our relationship is. But, of course, it is the foundation upon which our relationship was built.

[chilliwilli]

Originally Posted by coinflipper_21

Our society concedes to women the moral high ground at the start of almost any discussion between a man and a woman. Any woman that does not take advantage of this is either very much in love with the man or does not have two brain cells to rub together. (Many women maintain that both are the same thing.) This is a big subject, off topic for this thread, and if you want to go on with it, despite being in serious risk of being branded as a couple misogynists, we had better start another one.

True, just here to have a good time.
chilli-

[datyiasp]

Apparently, each situation is case specific.

If she's bitching about your castration speeches, I'd surmise she's upset with that particular subject.

Thank you.

[Eunics Wife]

My husband seemed to talk constantly about sex shorly after he became a Eunuch and at the time I considered that a bit odd. After realizing that it was because he was in a sort of state of denial, I began to understand. As the years went by, he spoke of it less and less and today, some 20 years later, it has become a non-issue. As I have mentioned on here on other occasions, it depends on the individual. All Eunuchs are not the same.

[CuriousDUD]

Eunics Wife,

If you don't mind, Why was your husband castrated?

[Castradão]

Please, sorry and i must reality when find this space for mans and women who fink at this thema.
My name is Minhoca i like all tell me for this.
Of course my big desiree at this fantasy, bau only after forty years i found.

My wife is a beautyful woman, and at the first time she ask me at our "Sexo".
- Please, leave me for cut at that?
- That your cock is a big and i know how much i make happy you !!!!

At this time i stoped for all and after up a light i pull all my air and wiht the total control ask you.

--- How do you know about my desiree?
--- How do you know????

---Anybody year my fantasy because i never talk about that !!!!!

And her face smile to me while she talk how fill my mind and enter in my life.
---Thats don't heve other razon, becouse i fill you alone when i pull your scrotun, and i jack'it when year your suply......

---Cut OFFF me and i happy on server you !!!
- While i a litle child i look while spy all boys suyming on river and filll a big desireee to cut oFF all pennis and balls that hes show with much orgulho.

- At this they i look how much one man can be a happy if i learn you.
- My big fantasy is reality with you becouse yo like that.

But for a while us still reality to that. and i found for more information

My husbun and i acording of other wuoman side by us to be happy.

My question is simple.
Who woman acept at tha fantasy???