Mike, there are many married eunuchs like me here. Mismatched libido or ability is a common thread. It is good to know you are not alone. For me, it started when my low-libido wife asked at what age men lose libido. She did not like the answer. This conversation started us thinking of lowering my testosterone. A few months later we ordered Depo-Provera from inhousepharmacy.biz as a trial. After about two months my libido disappeared and my wife became a huge fan of the trial. We kept extending the trial. The first year was rough. My wife helped me through the side-effects and gave encouragement.
Finally after two years we considered it no longer a trial. In 2010 after over four years on Depo-Provera and later siterone (generic Androcur), we dicided it should be permanent. She did not want to know details. I wound up using ethyl alcohol injections to finish them off.
So far no regrets. Before the "trial" I was fustrated and close to leaving. This saved our marriage.
Good luck,
Don
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