Desperate to be a Eunuch

[tugon]

Thanks Plix for your post.

I talked about the risk but not much of the physical consequences. I had mentioned the scrotal swelling but I did not share how severe. My scrotum became so large before care by the doctor that I could not urinate standing up. My penis could not be directed to the toilet or urinal. When I would sit on the toilet I had to face the toilet tank and angle my body to urinate.

At the time I had a 34 inch waist but had pants from the time I had a 38 inch waist which I needed to wear to have room for my scrotum. I sure received lots of stares. Of course I used feminine pads to absorb the drainage. When not working I lived in sweat pants until I was back to somewhat normal size.

I took mom to Olive Garden for lunch during that time. I went to the restroom and when I sat down the stitches ripped out. I grabbed some toilet paper and made a makeshift pad for my underwear. Then I went back to the table like everything was fine. When I arrived home I went to the bathroom and grabbed a magnifying mirror. I held it between my legs and was shocked that I could see up into my scrotum. I paged a friend working at the hospital and had him grab me some suture kits. Back home I drove to stitch me shut. Several times in those 12 days I tried to reclose the incision.

Those 12 days were very frightening. I was trying to act like everything was normal. Only missed one day of work. I learned how much sterile packing it takes to fill a swollen scrotum. I was very lucky to receive good care without a hospitalization and without time in the hospital's psych unit. As I have mentioned before I worked at the hospital where I would have been admitted. Most importantly I was never terminated which had also been a great fear. I am still surprised how few questions I was asked. The doctor's focus was on helping me heal. I am glad I did not have to go back to him after my actual castration.

[Patrickchemcast]

Hi, I found your message most interesting, as I am a candidate for castration, tried chemical cast for a while and loved the effects, except the energy loss. I am 62, my natural T level has dropped over the years, so the change should be less visible. Your testimony shows that exercise is very important to keep the body well functioning. I am retired but keep working for the sake of my mind...and my body. I live in a very large south american city and walk a lot. The hair around my crotch is greyish and much less abundant than before, I don't like hair and shave the area often.

My balls will certainly be gone before the year is out, I'll ask my doc about some HRT to maintain health and bone density, also I'd like to preserve my dick and not end up with a weenee, even if it's just good for pissing. Thanks to chemical cast my libido was gone, at last I was free of my ever demanding balls, and I slept better, the experience is positive, now I know for sure real cast is the next step.

[tugon]

Thanks Patrickchemcast for your response. I have to admit not knowing as much about chemical castration as I might like but physical castration was a great benefit for me. I hope it works well for you.

I checked your profile and it said you were from Paris, France and I wanted you to know I fell in love with Paris in May and June of the past year. I miss sitting on a bench on the Ponts des Arts watching boats travel the Seine.

Wishing you the best.

[tugon]

Valentine's Day is fast approaching and I thought I might rescue a dog. Sure a date would be nice but if I want something young and frisky sitting in my lap licking my face a dog would be the answer. The older couple I provide care for have a dog that provides much entertainment. Helping care for their dog has made me think about getting one for myself.

So many decisions, should I find a male or female. If male I would want it to be neutered. We can flip a coin later to see which of us is the Alpha Male. Maybe I should decide on breed first. I think a medium sized dog that would be fun to take to a park and play games. I am not interested in a dog that would fit in my purse. I would then have to buy a purse. I would want it to be friendly to others unless that other was breaking into the place. I would never want a dog that would bite someone and they would show up on their bike and put my dog in a picnic basket and pedal off to have it put down.

I would like a dog about two years old so it would be house trained. Preferably not a lot of shedding to vacuum up regularly. I would like a dog that likes to play but tires easily like it's owner. I have never enjoyed a biter so my dog should not be one that tries to bite my toes. I do not want a dog who is a gossip. The other dogs do not need to know how neurotic I am or that I cry at Extreme Home Makeover. Or that I try to emulate him when he licks himself. Fido show me one more time how you do it boy.

Oh hell I would have the responsibility of naming him. I am not sure if I am ready for a pet. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

[nullorchis]

A dog is a big responsibility. You are Master and Commander, and servant. Another life is completely dependent upon you. Pet food is not cheap. Time in each day must be allocated to walk the dog. This must be a problem in snowy cold places. Then if it gets ill, it can be very expensive for health care.

The Great Recession is one reason so many people turned in their dogs to animal shelters; they could not afford to feed or care for them.

Love and devotion are strong binds. One must have an emotional bond with a pet to overlook all of the difficulties of the relationship.

Pretty much like in relationships with people.
Some people would say that dogs are better though.
They don't talk back.
They bounce with joy to greet you when you come home.
(Are they happy to really see you, or just want to be fed and taken outside to pee?)

Good luck.

[tugon]

I should have mentioned that growing up we always had dogs, cats, fish, a bird and a chicken or two. I also pet sit for my sister and a friend so I am up to the task. Oh and in my psofessional life I am a caregiver to the elderly. So I think I have the skills.

My concern about breed and size is due to the fact I live in an apartment. The apartment is a little over 1,000 sq. ft. with two bedrooms. The reason I worry about a chewer is my antiques.

I live on the second floor so taking the dog for a walks would raise my exercise level. Picking up poop would cause me to bend over for more exercise. Luckily my sister would pet sit if I traveled.

I guess I need to start visiting the shelter to see if I bond with any dogs. I am a sucker for sad eyes. Being soft hearted I might want to bring several home.

[raymar2020]

There is no joy in my life that exceeds that which is brought to me by my dog. She has been with me since she was 5 weeks old, and will be 5 years this sunday. Her devotion to me is amazing. The greeting I get when I come home is as though I have been gone for days, even if its been just an hour.

Gabby snuggles up to me and looks at me as though her world totally revolves around me. We play together, we eat together, and at night she curls up at my feet on the bed.

I have 12 coming to celebrate her birthday on sunday.

A dog in your life is the best therapy for lonliness.

Raymar

[tugon]

There is no joy in my life that exceeds that which is brought to me by my dog. She has been with me since she was 5 weeks old, and will be 5 years this sunday. Her devotion to me is amazing. The greeting I get when I come home is as though I have been gone for days, even if its been just an hour.

Gabby snuggles up to me and looks at me as though her world totally revolves around me. We play together, we eat together, and at night she curls up at my feet on the bed.

I have 12 coming to celebrate her birthday on sunday.

A dog in your life is the best therapy for lonliness.

Raymar

Thanks Raymar for your post. I agree that a dog will bring joy to my life and offset the lonliness. As of now it is only the dust bunnies that are glad to see me.

[Caith721]

If you finally decide to have a dog, please adopt from your local shelter. You'd be amazed to see how many pure-breed, well-behaved and trained dogs have been turned in. Also, here's a generality for you, YMMV: In my experience, mixed-breed mutts make the smartest, most loyal and lovable pets.

[tugon]

If you finally decide to have a dog, please adopt from your local shelter. You'd be amazed to see how many pure-breed, well-behaved and trained dogs have been turned in. Also, here's a generality for you, YMMV: In my experience, mixed-breed mutts make the smartest, most loyal and lovable pets.

I do want a rescue dog from a shelter. All my dogs have been mixed breeds but for a Collie I had once. She was so sweet and patient that I could take her to a class of young children with disabilities and they would have fun dressing her up. The kids loved it when she had her coat, purse, hat and sumglasses. They would pose with her and I would take their pictures. I want a sweet gentle dog.

I would never buy a dog from a store because I will not support a puppy mill.

[tugon]

Well I went to the Humane Society today and began the process to adopt. Then I went to the rental office to let them know I was going to have a furry roommate. Next of course if I am approved for adoption I need to buy food and toys, collar and leash, and maybe a doggie bed. Sadly I think my collars would be too large for the dog.

I was impressed by the adoption process. I had to give references along with the phone number of the rental office. They will call to make sure I live in a pet friendly apartment. They even asked where it would sleep and I answered "anywhere it wants to" but they meant indoors or out. I hope they do not call back and say I am not smart enough for a dog.

Seeing all those dogs behind bars reminded me of my last relationship. I hope the dog is not pretending to like me just to get sprung. I can imagine bringing it home only for it to lie in the corner and ignore me. I can imagine it barking "leave me alone but keep my dog bowl filled, bitch". One dog in particular seemed rather affectionate and needy. My sister is going with me later to look at all of them again. Oh I hope I am better at choosing a dog than I am choosing a man.

Is it crazy to be this nervous about choosing a pet?

[tugon]

My sister and I went back to see the dogs and I made my choice. Tomorrow I will be bringing home a 3 year old neutered male Beagle that was unfortunately named Regal. When I made the second trip back and I entered all the dogs were barking for attention but Regal. He just wagged his tail and smiled. His smile won me over.

[AtomicMush]

Good for you. Regal needs a forever home.

[Uncle Flo]

Regal the beagle?!?! --FLO--

[tugon]

Regal the beagle?!?! --FLO--

Ya I have to deal with the name. He can be Regal but I am the Queen. One of my favorite audio companies from England is Rega so I may drop the L.