eunuch responses from men and women in social settings

[knightbird111]

So after being castrated what kind of responses do you get from people in public. For example: are men more nastier or aggressive toward you or more friendly? I am talking about just random people in the street.

I would assume low T sensed by other men would make that man feel less threatened however I guess this would have its pros and cons. Pro being maybe the man will be more friendlier toward you Con being that guy will boss you around.

Again, definitely want to hear the responses you eunuch men get from people.

Like how do women react around you, are they like more interested to talk with you? Or are women more angry at you because they sense no horny hormones in you.

[Lasander]

I don't make it a habit of telling random people on the street my hormone situation. I've only told a handful of people and only one of whom was male. The responses were pretty accepting with varying amount of questions but no hostility or anything like that. Also, being bossed around has more to do with how well your personality interact with others more than your hormone levels. Same goes with how safe people feel around you and some people are threatened by men (and transwomen) no matter what their hormone situation is.

[Paolo]

Jesus can verify this, if you don't believe it.

I present as male, and have had low-T from testicular "vacation" due to illness for several years.
I have buzzed hair and goatee, and there's no mistaking me for male. I do have an odd voice, though, I'm told.

Strange women talk to me in stores. I mean, chat for several minutes.
Babies reach for me. Toddlers jump out of shopping carts at me. Little kids talk to me and follow me around.
I've even had strange women in line hand me a child and say "hold this" while they unload. With or without one of "mine" in tow.

Animals also tend to like me, or make up with me, a lot faster than I recall from before.

As Lasander stated, I don't advertise "low T" either.

As for men, I don't notice any difference in their behavior. Although I never strange men come up and start a conversation with me.

[raymar2020]

I will respond to this from a different direction. I am a T eunuch. I can't stand the side effects of not having it. I also am out about my status to almost everyone I know. I got many questions at first, and a few male associates kind of put a protective hand over their balls, but overall I find that if anything I am respected for who I am and the job that I do.

A few potential sexual partners were put off by the idea of a guy with no balls, but even in intimate situations I rarely have found much objection.

I will also state that to me, the sex drive is really not from testosterone, but from my brain. I can and do get googly eyed over a really hot guy, but I can also then turn it off. Its much more about which head I am letting run things at the moment. I think that artifical Testosterone allows more control in that direction. I can see and be around someone that I would really like to be getting naked, and noy have it take control of me.

In the words of Robin Williams " God gave man a brain and a penis, and enough blood to run only one of them at a time" I just make sure that the brain is running not the penis.( unless its supposed to be ) LOL

Raymar

[unencumbered]

I think that artificial Testosterone allows more control in that direction.
Raymar

That has been my experience so far. I started taking HRT after my surgery do to tiredness and depression. My energy is now up and I feel fairly good. I've noticed body hair growth again. But so far, I've been able to control my low libido.
As far as men and women go when they hear that I have been castrated, the men seem express sympathy and have a better you than me attitude and the women are more concerned and want to know how I am feeling.

[transward]

The vast majority of people wouldn't notice if Angelina Jolie rode a unicorn (eunuchorn?) down the street naked, and you think people are going to notice a change in your hormones. That's just a wee bit egotistical.

Transward

[unencumbered]

I think that artificial Testosterone allows more control...
Raymar

Your comment got me thinking that why taking HRT my libido has not increased while my energy level has. From what I have been able to discover from searching the internet, TRT does not necessarily increase one's sex drive, especially in older men. One can have erections and enjoy sex, just that the inclination for it is not there.

[fredbutz]

I'm a pretty up front guy and I occasionally get a comment like "man you have a lot of balls doing that."

I like to respond, "actually I have no balls at all." Its fun the see the reaction.

Also, I thought that a lot of women would be attracted to eunuchs. But I haven't found any interested enough to get naked with me.

[littletits]

My friends (male) were sympathetic to my situation but none wanted to explore any more than that and girls were very curious and seval wanted to see me nude and all wanted to know how I felt and what way it had impacted on my life. Now having almost completely feminised I am accepted as woman by women in general and get hit upon by men. As I am a straight eunuch I simply tell them that I am into women and not men, which is true, though I cannot have sex with them, it probably helps that my girlfriends know I am not going to steal their husband or boyfriend. My male friends now treat me as a woman but all friendships are and will remain platonic. They are surprised by the changes but I often tell them never to take female hormones as they are very addictive and if they do they will end up with a female body shape.

[devi]

My experience of being eunuchoid and lacking hormones has actually had much more with having the appearance of being younger than my actual age. A lot of people want to look younger than they are but that does have its drawbacks. It really does. You may even find yourself being told off by somebody you know to be your age, even a little younger and be having them telling you that you had better listen to them since they're older and know a hell of lot more than you do. In a college town, college age men would constantly block me off to talking with their love interest like if they had any competition. They'd be careful to sit down in between me and their love interest. I always found that amusing. --Part of the mating ritual, I guess. As far as taking hormones the funny thing about when I started taking a minimal doseage of estrogen is that nobody can tell. Not even me. Very little difference whatsoever.

[knightbird111]

low T is the fountain of youth?

[Uncle Flo]

Low T is not the fountain of youth. In fact, the effects of low T are so varied that wide generalizations can not be made. Some people are better off with low T, some are much worse off,and some people need to find a balance of hormones in order to be at the most desirable point for them. It is a very individual thing. --FLO--

[devi]

The fountain of youth in theory would allow you to live longer, have less wrinkles and not have to age. Nobody on earth as far as I know has ever attained this. Not even eunuchs. What more T does do is make you look less child-like by allowing the body to develop more facial hair, a mastoid process making the jaw look more square, eyebrows that are more bushier and overhang more, a more deeper voice, more muscles and a larger, less youthful build, bigger hands and feet, less soft and a less clear shade of skin, hair on the chest, and more body hair and then baldness in many men.