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[Katherine Kimball]

Hello, I stumbled across this wonderful site by chance today and am loving it from the little time I've gotten to spend here. Seems like the right place for educated information, other places I've visited have been... Unhelpful to say the least. Fantasies that would kill if done in reality. My husband made a promise to me many years ago that after our second child was born, I could castrate him. Seemed like a really odd thought at the time, but after talking about it with him through time I've really come to enjoy it. Our second little one is due in just a couple months now, and I find myself thinking about it more and more through out the day. It is something I'd LOVE to do, but I love him more and fear for his safety more than he seems to. From what I've gathered the burdizzo, while hard to master, is the safer way to go. While it gets the desired result, I've grown rather fond of the idea of preserving them - a trophy of sorts. We've managed to get injectable lidocaine. My question is could I use an elastrator to put a couple of bands on after numbing the cords, make a small incision to fish the little suckers out, tie off the cords tightly with the proper sutures, cut then possibly cauterize the ends, flush with iodine and stitch the incision before removing the bands? I'd like him to keep his empty scrotum so I realize it would have to be done fairly quick to keep it from dying from the lack of bloodflow. I'd say less than an hour after putting on the first band. I'm sorry if the answer is already here, I don't have much time to look during my chaotic day but I will continue to search around here when I can. Any advice or the like would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance!

[kiwi]

Not safe to practice this type of surgery at home. I was castrated by a doc, only way to do it. Good luck.

[Katherine Kimball]

A wise tip - kind of takes the fun out of my hands and away from him too I'm sure. An option to consider though, and such a fast response

[Arab Nights]

I see you live in the USA. You might consider travel. There are countries that are much looser than the USA in how things are done. You could do it under medical supervision and the products would not be considered medical waste to be discarded. Depends, of course, on your budget, etc.

[C&TL2745]

Some here have recommended chemical castration as a "trial run" to test the waters, so to speak, before permanent damage is done. In the search box at the top of the page, enter "depo provera." You'll probably get more information than you can digest on the subject, but the essential idea is that your hubby would keep his testicles (at least for now), but the drug would suppress the testosterone as if he were castrated. You could both then see whether the depression, weight gain, and other side effects of castration are worth it before doing something irreversible.

Sandi

[Jere Timm]

hi, i was recently casteraed by Dr. arnkoff and he and his nurse, allow you to watch the castration and they are completly safe and proffesional, the cost was $2000.00 but well worth it for the safty, i enjoyed watching them as they castrated me and explained each step along the procedure and showed me each testicle as they removed it and held it up for me to take cell pictures of as the were castrating me, and then i was given my testicles to take with me in a jar of fermylidehide, i now can enjoy the pictures and seeing my balls in a jar and my exwife enjoyes seeing them too. this may be a better option then castrating him your self . i always wanted a young women to castrate me and this was as good as it gets having her pul them down as he cut them off..ifyou have any questions please feel free to contact me. my email is jere.timm@gmail.com I now enjoy masturebating thinking about how she helped castrate me and the the feeling as i was castrated makes me feel as a eunuch i am...thank you DR. arnkoff and esp. his nurse that helped in my castration....jere

[Wellesley]

I agree with the idea of a trial run,

The effects of no T on a younger man are quite severe.
Depression being a huge one. I would not recommend it just after giving birth. The lack of energy etc would make life very difficult.

I had my last testicle removed after our son turned 4 and my wife had a radical hysterectomy. I take T and am now on a much reduced amount. I still have issues with sleep and depression.

The thing with the chemicals I think is that taking a little T is not an option as I understand it.
You also have to be 100% sure that you want no more kids.
Self image was a big issue for me when I had to have the first testicle removed, even though I had know for years it would have to happen eventually the reality was a huge shock.

[punkypink]

You'll find that most people WILL disabuse you of the notion that this is something safe to do at home. Ultimately though, it's up to you and your hubby not to let the wrong head overrule common sense.

[nullorchis]

Since permanent elimination of testosterone production, via castration or other means, can have a profound effect on one's mental, physical, and emotional conditions, this is not something to be taken lightly. What might seem like a curiosity or amusement needs to be looked at seriously and the long term effects taken into consideration.

Supplemental HRT after loss of testosterone production is not necessarily going to enable one to feel and perform the same sexually, mentally, physically or emotionally.

Since sperm can be stored there is no reason to wait for first child, second child, third child, etc.
Hopefully both parties are OK with a future of having no sex life.
If in time the two part ways, it is the man who is going to have a future of no sex.
This definitely needs to be the man's decision, AND done in a medical clinic.

[Katherine Kimball]

So much knowledge! A trial does sound like a good idea, will give him a chance to back out :P thank you guys, its amazing to not be flooded with horny fantasies and get real knowledge for a change

[DeaconBlues]

So much knowledge! A trial does sound like a good idea, will give him a chance to back out :P thank you guys, its amazing to not be flooded with horny fantasies and get real knowledge for a change

Many people have posted their chemical castration experiences here, I have myself in the "Depo Provera" thread. While I am sure that reading about some of these experiences will be helpful for you, I think it is very important to point out that each and every man is different and unique, and therefore the castration experience will also be unique, with some things for your husband being similar to others' experiences, and some things being entirely unique to him. As an example I point out that almost every other person reports depression, some quite severe depression, yet I never felt the least bit depressed during my chemical castration, it was actually an enjoyable relief I felt mostly. In fairness, my ejoyable experience of it may have been because I knew (at least for the first month or so) that the effects were not really going to be permanent.

[Sweetpickle]

Katherine,

You might consider reading up on the alcohol injection method.
That way you could castrate him with relatively little danger
over a period of time and as part of whatever scene you two might
choose.

[punkypink]

So much knowledge! A trial does sound like a good idea, will give him a chance to back out :P thank you guys, its amazing to not be flooded with horny fantasies and get real knowledge for a change

As long as you stick to the forums rather than the chatrooms of course.

[Katherine Kimball]

you'd be surprised, never chatrooms - just other forums :P

[butterflyjack]

Some here have recommended chemical castration as a "trial run" to test the waters, so to speak, before permanent damage is done. In the search box at the top of the page, enter "depo provera." You'll probably get more information than you can digest on the subject, but the essential idea is that your hubby would keep his testicles (at least for now), but the drug would suppress the testosterone as if he were castrated. You could both then see whether the depression, weight gain, and other side effects of castration are worth it before doing something irreversible.

Sandi

Hi Sandi..I just ordered a 3 month supply of spiro and estradiol from United Pharmacies yesterday.. I'm already taking finasteride for my prostate..it will assist in the process...Time to get off the pot and on the anti androgens..hehe
I'm hoping for a cessation of erections and a general feminization . We'll see...At last I am doing something about this....and can stop if it doesn't please me..Smooches
Jackie