I had a nice lady help me get them gone ,then came home from my trip with a story I never had to use because she know right away and could tell i was happy with the new look and said oh my god you got your self castrated, you look much better , did it hut ,is that why you ask about the look of them,this is going to be so good for us. and then I said thanks and it didn,t hurt much at all the stiches hurt more.that was 3years agoOriginally Posted by punkypink
no, but I've decided I'm going to be Captain Obvious from now on.
Hahah there's a whole bunch of fictional stories like that in the archives, better written too. Try harder?
Seriously...
Especially the whole idea of a woman being HAPPY about it. I think the vast majority IMHO would be horrified and ANGRY if a husband did that. I don't think Sandi here would be happy to find out her companion was suddenly without.
Man hating lesbians? They would rather have nothing to do with men at all, they certainly don't have any intention of castrating them. It's a big built-in FANTASY of this site that there are women chomping at the bit to castrate guys. That they idea is some freaky sexual turn on for them. Maybe all the stories reinforce the fantasy.
I can't speak to gay relationships, but in general I would believe they aren't much different. I'm sure you want your partner to remain in-tact. Not take on any health risks and loss of sexual interest. Again FANTASY.
That's my belief...and anyone who is cheerleading and talking up castration to encourage others to do it, is a troll. Serious people on here who try and help others go out of their way to caution guys. Tell them to learn ALL the facts, chemical trial...etc..and to KNOW the consequences of an unalterable life changing decision.
Fantasies are never anything close to reality. As a lesbian I've said this before and I'll say it again, I have no interest in sexually fulfilling a guy, so if he gets sexually fulfilled by castration or penectomy, why would I want to chop anything off him?
Gotta second everything else that wolf-pup's said.
I hear you about the captain obvious notation there Punky. I second that. I've grow weary of all these people that come into serious, real discussions, and start using them for their own masturbation material.
I wish they would just stop trying to interact with those of us that have actually done something to our bodies and head straight to the fiction section since I'm not their toy.
--LT
Sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug.
Indeed. Well, I got told off awhile back for tellin' it like it is. If I had to be brutally frank, there are lots of ignorant, pervy morons on the EA whether board or chatroom. That is something that even a fair few admins themselves privately agree on. Still, what to do? I guess the morons have rights to spread lies and cause harm in the world. The rest of us just have to clean up after them, contain the damage they cause, while not stepping on their "rights".
I think once castrated it would be fairly obvious to a wife that the bag wasn empty and the penis was limp and hubby has no intrest in sex. I trhink the numbers doing this would be very low.
I can imagine that the wife in this situation could divorce over it and take him to the cleaners. Outside of this site, generally speaking it would be looked upon as self-mutilation. Alienation of affection, inability to perform husbandry functions....not the MAN I married...etc
I think a good lawyer could have a field day with this.
That is how my wife looks at it, as self mutilation. However I am already a eunuch because I have lost my pituitary gland to a tumor. My testicles are useless and just in the way. Would not change how I function but she still is apposed to there removal.
I was thinking in terms of someone doing it behind their wife's back and then her finding out. Not your specific circumstance.
Are there many men doing this without tell their wifes ,,hope it is a low low % and are wifes happy about after again even lower % I hope .are there friged wifes or some that don't like a guy with a big dick and over active sex drive. And finds sex painful, yes . a freind of our had her vagina fixed up because of her pain . My wife is now happer with my lower or no sex drive and smaller 7" dick now . I think most guys know what or have ask what the wife wants .How often can you any thing that she don't all ready suspect. she knew right away
To answer and hopefully end this thread, yes there are.
I know for a fact this discussion is valid between a husband and wife. I have had it. My wife thinks im crazy to want them gone and I have told her I may just come home without them someday, so dont be surprised of angry. She laughs, but I have talked with Dr. A about it without her approval. I truly believe it will happen with or without her blessing and if without, I will do it without her knowledge
I didnt tell mine I just killed them off then they needed to come out for medical reaseons which of course my wife was fine about as for the sex side well with the replacment drugs nothing has changed so far. Mine was just because I hated the look and wanted rid, Ive had all my children and had no further need for them. May be I should have been truthfull with my wife but I dont think she would have understood and life is to short to not have what you want after all the children are sorted, I can still give her what she wants and I have what I want so why rock the boat?
Good luck
Orchiectomy performed 01/2012 and I love it.
Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body;
but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming:
"WOW...WHAT A RIDE!!!"
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