Survey question Gay, Straight, Bi or Other?

[parksdjs]

Family jewels were crushed three years ago, I am straight and married but must say that I do enjoy seeing a eunuich having sex with a woman.

[Caith721]

So I'm straight, trans, and prefer feminine partners. I wouldn't mind dating a pre-op transsexual woman, "functional" or not. She's a woman, and I love women. Even if I had SRS, I'd still like women, so I guess then I wouldn't be straight anymore.

Aren't niches strictly for artifacts and mementos, not people?

[Johnny_60016]

Completely 100% Gay.
I love men: their personalities, mannerisms, thought patterns, behaviors, AND their faces, bodies, etc.

Never had a desire for sex or emotional intamacy with a woman, in fact when I was starting puberty, and I found out about sex (straight was taught in school sex-ed) it was completely sickening to me.
That said, I need a penectomy. If you have a penectomy too it would be fine. If not you can wear the penis in our family.

[punkypink]

Aren't niches strictly for artifacts and mementos, not people?

And people working in the marketing department for car companies.

[hkeunuch]

I'd say I'm gay. I had my stint with the opposite sex while in my 20's and most that the 5 year period, I was watching other men and missing the sex with them.

Myself having a much reduced package which barely functions after several years on Androcur, I am attracted to effeminate guys, pre-op transsexuals (mainly the ones who had been on hormones for a long time, with much shrunken genitals that may or may not function any more), and especially other eunuchs (surgical or chemical).

If "gay" or better yet "homosexual" refers to those who like people of the same sex, then I certainly qualifies. Narcissistic too, I suppose.

[symempathy]

I'd say I'm gay. I had my stint with the opposite sex while in my 20's and most that the 5 year period, I was watching other men and missing the sex with them.

Myself having a much reduced package which barely functions after several years on Androcur, I am attracted to effeminate guys, pre-op transsexuals (mainly the ones who had been on hormones for a long time, with much shrunken genitals that may or may not function any more), and especially other eunuchs (surgical or chemical).

If "gay" or better yet "homosexual" refers to those who like people of the same sex, then I certainly qualifies. Narcissistic too, I suppose.

Are you saying that you are also attracted to guys (biological guys) who have vagina?

I'm curious. Have you ever been in love with a vagina man or transsexual female?

[hkeunuch]

Are you saying that you are also attracted to guys (biological guys) who have vagina?

I'm curious. Have you ever been in love with a vagina man or transsexual female?

Never got the chance to know any vagina man in person. But from my experience with biological females, I am not sure if I would like a vagina on my partner -- being a eunuch myself not being able to have any penetrative sex without using any toys.

I have enjoyed being with trans M2F. But I think, without the benefit of real experience, I might actually enjoy being with other eunuchs a bit more -- maybe a bit feminine in behaviors, but not trying to be a female completely.

[symempathy]

Never got the chance to know any vagina man in person. But from my experience with biological females, I am not sure if I would like a vagina on my partner -- being a eunuch myself not being able to have any penetrative sex without using any toys.

If your partner, presumably a genetic male with a vagina, doesn't ask or pressure you to penetrate him, are you going to pursue a relationship with him?

I have enjoyed being with trans M2F. But I think, without the benefit of real experience, I might actually enjoy being with other eunuchs a bit more -- maybe a bit feminine in behaviors, but not trying to be a female completely.

I'm sorry if I'm digging too deeply in your personal feelings. When you say you enjoyed being with a male to female transsexual, was it just for fun or were you actually in love with her?

[Buddy666]

Originally Posted by Caith721 View Post
Aren't niches strictly for artifacts and mementos, not people?

And people working in the marketing department for car companies.

I agree, but if its sharing time, I would be called bi-sexual or better yet pan-sexual as I can enjoy sex with any gender at all. I enjoy women or people that look like ladies a bit more than men, but whenever I can't have one or the other the desire becomes very strong. Is "spoiled" a sexual preference, because I am that too! LOL. My best sex ever was with a male/female couple who were very in love with each other. Since then I never doubted who I am and I looked for and found an open relationship like they had. I wonder what happened to them.

[hkeunuch]

Symempathy,

Sorry for the slow reply. Been away on a very hectic business trip that turned out very fruitful too.

If your partner, presumably a genetic male with a vagina, doesn't ask or pressure you to penetrate him, are you going to pursue a relationship with him?

It's always possible to pursue a relationship with any one. To me, that depends on not just the genital make up, but also personality, shared interests, values, chemistry, etc. etc.

Even though I identify myself as gay, I had enjoyed a loving relationship with a genetic female for many years -- basically the complete opposite end of the sexual spectrum from a genetic male. So, anything is possible.

As a gay man, I have been in satisfying relationships with a complete top once, a complete bottom another time, and a versatile guy before all that. Our breakup had never been about what we did in bed.

But calling myself gay, I like to play with male genitalia more than female genitalia. However, more and more, I found a small set of never-hard, soft male genitalia even more fun to play with.

When you say you enjoyed being with a male to female transsexual, was it just for fun or were you actually in love with her?

Yes, the two times I was with a M2F, both times were just for fun, mostly to find out more about my feelings towards them. There was no thought of a relationship beyond the one off fling from either sides. Again, to me, falling in love involves mostly emotional connection more than physical connection.

I am not sure if I am confusing. Well, I guess that's just part of me, besides my genitalia.

[symempathy]

Yes, the two times I was with a M2F, both times were just for fun, mostly to find out more about my feelings towards them. There was no thought of a relationship beyond the one off fling from either sides. Again, to me, falling in love involves mostly emotional connection more than physical connection.

I am not sure if I am confusing. Well, I guess that's just part of me, besides my genitalia.

Thank you for your answer. You can call me Minh
You're really a man. I can never distinguish physical and emotional connection although I'm a man too. I don't know if that has anything to do with the way I was raised. My culture is still not very open toward sex.

I came to the US when I was 18, but my attitude about sex and relationship is never rigid. I have always been attracted to men (I'm talking about people who appear secondary sex characteristics. I don't really know what they have under their pants)

Nevertheless, if I fall in love with a girl someday, I won't fight that feeling.
Now I'm 26 and never have sex with any man. I really want to do it with a guy, but I have to be in love with him. I cannot just jump on him even though he offers me. I guess his genitalia won't matter to me. After all, I myself want to change my genitalia as well. I don't want my penis; I want a vagina but is still a male. I'm happy with my secondary male sex characteristics.

But calling myself gay, I like to play with male genitalia more than female genitalia. However, more and more, I found a small set of never-hard, soft male genitalia even more fun to play with.

I understand what you are saying, but it is just about sexual organ, isn't it? Let's say you meet a masculine yet sensitive and caring man, and he's in love with you. You also like him a lot. If he's honest with you about his sexual organ that he has a vagina from the very beginning of the relationship, do you think your attraction for him would drop? Do you think it will be awkward to have vaginal sex with him because you will have direct face to face contact with him during the physical intimacy?

[Am I you?]

I do believe it is time for me to weigh in
When way younger I knew that I was
different than other boys. In high school I was on the swim team so I could hang with guys wearing speedos.
At 19 I joined the Air Force and had a grand time in the all man gang showers, abet only hands off, while still enjoying the sight of nude men
At 26 I got married and still am.Although while married I had clandistine
meetings with men.
I came OUT to my wife 7 years ago and we went through some rough times because of it
Now she accepts it and we are really happy together.
I can say definately that I am GAY and proud to be so
I am totally receptive when it comes to sex v insertive

Mother GOD does't make mistakes

AM I YOU?

[symempathy]

At 26 I got married and still am.Although while married I had clandistine
meetings with men.
I came OUT to my wife 7 years ago and we went through some rough times because of it
Now she accepts it and we are really happy together.
I can say definately that I am GAY and proud to be so
I am totally receptive when it comes to sex v insertive

Mother GOD does't make mistakes

AM I YOU?

Are you still staying physically intimate with your wife?

[Am I you?]

Am I still intimate with my wife?

NO

Just with younger men, say between 40 and 50

I shave my face, ass, chest and balls. I leave a little pubic hair so as not be too obvious to MDs

And love it when my male partner at the time shaves too. Not attracted to bears.

AM I YOU?

[symempathy]

Am I still intimate with my wife?

NO

Just with younger men, say between 40 and 50

I shave my face, ass, chest and balls. I leave a little pubic hair so as not be too obvious to MDs

And love it when my male partner at the time shaves too. Not attracted to bears.

AM I YOU?

Your wife can handle the fact that you are no longer intimate with her? That is admirable of her. If I was in her shoes, I wouldn't be able to accept that. I don't expect an amazing sex performance, but I do want physical connection with the man I love. I don't care if he is impotent or has some erectile dysfunction. As long as he can hold me in our sleep, that is enough for me.