This blog thread is a continuation of the previous threads "Penis Numbing Question" and "'Mom' and 'Dad'????". Events are changing enough to make those thread titles less applicable now. Tim and I will be heading to the airport in less than an hour, then off to California for two weeks' vacation with my old college roommate Megan. Those who've followed the previous blog threads know that my hubby Tim and I have been married for 20 years and that for decades--since ...